Is it possible to meditate in a moment?

Laboratory experiments and psychological studies have shown that meditation can improve mood, decrease anxiety, alleviate depression, lower blood pressure, strengthen the immune system, and promote optimism and resilience.

by Martin Boroson — 

Many people see meditation as an endurance test: the longer they can sit still being peaceful, the more spiritual they are. Others believe that meditation must be practiced in a serene, beautiful retreat — far removed from everyday life. Some may have these beliefs, no doubt, because so much of our spiritual heritage has been handed down by monks, nuns, hermits and prophets — people who renounced ordinary life to spend years and years in silent contemplation.

But times are changing, as is our understanding of meditation. Scientific research is confirming that the benefits of meditation are not just esoteric or spiritual, but quite practical, too.

Laboratory experiments and psychological studies have shown that meditation can improve mood, decrease anxiety, alleviate depression, lower blood pressure, strengthen the immune system and promote optimism and resilience.

Today, more and more people believe that the benefits of meditation should be available when we need them, and that the practice of meditation should be doable everywhere — whether we are stuck in traffic, starting a business or changing a diaper. Many people also want to bring meditation or meditative principles into their relationships, parenting and work, and see a need for more meditative approaches in politics, business decisions and public conversations.

Surely the more quickly we can be peaceful, and the fewer props we need to achieve this state, the better. So let me tell you why I believe it is not only possible to meditate in a moment, but essential that we do.

We all fantasize, from time to time, about being peaceful in some other time or place. We imagine being peaceful in the future — at the end of the day, on the weekend, after the kids grow up, when we retire. Or we imagine being peaceful somewhere else — in church, in a park, on a deserted beach. But each time we do this, we fail to meet the moment that is here. We let ourselves off the hook. This is an especially self-defeating form of procrastination, for the moment in which we most need to be peaceful is the very moment in which it is not so easy to be peaceful.

Whenever we think that peacefulness takes a lot of time, or will come only in the future, we are focusing on becoming peaceful rather than being peaceful. We are keeping ourselves in a state of wanting, and this state of wanting is, by definition, not a state of being or having.

So if you believe that you must meditate for a long time in order to become peaceful, you are creating more stress for yourself. It’s like throwing a ball out in front of you, then racing to catch it, and if you do catch it, immediately throwing it out in front of you again — while also complaining that you never have the ball.

On a deeper level, if our sense of contentment is dependent on circumstances, then it is vulnerable to a change of circumstances. If we are only content when life is going well, we cannot be content when life is going badly. This is not a stable or deep kind of contentment.

True contentment transcends the ups and downs of life. The  “now” is embraced, with all its imperfections. In other words, the only way to be really peaceful is to be fully content with what is happening now — even if, sometimes, it is not peaceful.

In the wonderfully succinct words of the spiritual teacher Krishnamurti, “It’s now or never.” This doesn’t mean that if you are not feeling peaceful now, you will never feel peaceful. It just means that contentment is only possible when you are not throwing that ball into the future. It is only possible in the present tense (or rather, the present not-tensed). When you are truly present in the present, your mind is not concerned with wanting things to be different than they are — and that is contentment.

Since contentment can only be found now, in the present moment, this also means that it does not take any time at all. It does not happen over time: it happens in a moment. So you do not have to go on a retreat or quit your job or find “20 minutes, twice a day” in order to become peaceful.

Peace is always available. It is offering itself to you now, now, and now again, wherever you are. But you aren’t aware of it because, well, you’re too busy doing other things, like trying to become peaceful.

So think of this approach as just getting straight to the point. If being peaceful is possible now, and is only possible now, then you might as well get right to it.

Please know that I do not intend this approach to replace any other form of meditation or prayer, any path of self-discovery, or any of the excellent self-help or leadership books available today. It’s just that whichever path you choose, whatever help you seek, if you do not learn to master the moment, your chance of success is limited. But if you do learn to master the moment, then there is nothing stopping you.

 

Martin Boroson is an original and imaginative teacher of meditation and spirituality. With a background that includes management, psychology and Zen practice, he is the author of One Moment Meditation: Stillness for People on the Go, and a speaker and consultant who presents a modern, multicultural understanding of spirituality that is playful, profound and always practical. www.martinboroson.info.

Reprinted from AzNetNews, Volume 28, Number 3, Jun/July 2009.

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