by Sara Wiseman — Are you dreading it already? You know — the whole shopping-gifting-cooking-cleaning-eating-drinking-socializing-relatives-traveling season just ahead? From Thanksgiving to New Year’s, many of us get trapped in a cycle of overabundance — the state of having too much and more than we can use or process. The cup that is not just full, […]
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Honoring relationship boundaries
November 17, 2013
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by Lori Rubenstein — While it is easy to buy into the idea that children need boundaries and that they feel safe and loved when firm boundaries are present, we do not hold the same beliefs in love partnerships. Instead, we have a tendency to become so enmeshed that we lose ourselves, not knowing where […]
Adult rebellion: a tool for personal reinvention
November 16, 2013
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by Linda Crill — Rebellion is expected from teenagers. It is normal for our youth to protest established traditions and test rules as they reinvent themselves in preparation for adulthood. But what about adult rebellion? Eighteen months after my husband passed away, I overachieved at following the one-size-fits-all advice for widows — and I was […]
Earth: Planet of illusions
November 9, 2013
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by Paul Reinig — When you find your life filled with what seems like constant struggle, fear and doubt, it could be helpful to remember that the only real thing in the universe is love. At the core of our being, that is all we are. We chose to come to this particular planet because […]
Where does motivation come from?
November 8, 2013
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by Sandy Jones — I used to think motivation came from outside myself, and sometime it does. Certain types of motivation definitely do come from external sources. For example, parents are a source of motivation. They motivate their children to do well in school, to clean their rooms, to make good choices. While parents are […]
Positive self talk: If not you, then who?
November 7, 2013
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by Sherry Anshara — Have you ever found that it is easy to give compliments and kudos to your family and friends, yet it’s difficult to receive them, especially from yourself? Why? Is it possible that somewhere in your subconscious you believe you are undeserving, not good enough? Does this belief prevent you from telling […]
Whom do you appreciate?
November 1, 2013
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by Shirley Osborne — “Two, four, six, eight. Who do you appreciate?” Really, whom do you appreciate? Why? How are these persons like you? How are they different? How does their being similar to you ease your relationship? How does their being different from you enhance your friendship? How do you appreciate them? Appreciation implies […]
Grounding is good medicine
October 19, 2013
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by Francesca McCartney, Ph.D. — The practice of grounding produces a connection with the earth that naturally provides emotional and physical health benefits. It helps you settle into yourself and create a calm mood when you are overwhelmed by people, activity or your surroundings. Before you enter a potentially stressful situation, close your eyes, take […]
Breathing away your child’s stress
October 10, 2013
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by Lisa Redmond — There is no denying that life is stressful, and children are no different than adults when it comes to stress. They endure stress within the family, related to the emotions and behaviors of parents and siblings. They have the social stress of peer pressure, sharing and negotiating friendships, separation from the […]
Quick life makeover
October 7, 2013
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by Kathy Gates — You can try to chalk it up to “they have less to do than I do.” But let us face it, anybody who has an organized, smooth-flowing life has to work at it. I even heard one client try to pass it off as good genes, saying that organized people have […]
Letting go of vices
October 6, 2013
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by Kristin Cicciarelli — Recently, a lovely woman named “Susan” announced that although she is a contributing member to society, an excellent mother and a dedicated employee, she is also an alcoholic. She is not the kind of alcoholic depicted in Hollywood movies — the stumbling, nonfunctioning ne’er-do-well who drinks Jack Daniels for breakfast and […]
Boomers — We can still change the world
October 5, 2013
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by Barney Cannon — I know you are out there. You are almost retired or thinking about retiring; you are a banker, a construction worker or a realtor and you drive a BMW, a Tahoe, an F-10 or a Harley. Your children are grown, or almost grown. When you get home after a long day, […]
How to be a great networker
October 3, 2013
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by Mary Sanders — How often do you think about being on the giving side instead of the receiving side? Many people attend networking meetings with the attitude of “What am I going to get out of this?” Sadly, the regulars in a group know this type of visitor all too well. They attend one […]
November 30, 2013
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